Importance of Wingmanship

A wingman is absolutely essential if you're out to get chicks. A wingman makes things less scary, boosts your confidence, and gives you more interesting things to talk about. If you've got a friend, turn him into a wingman and start planning. If you don't, invest some time into finding a friend who's willing to wing for you. If you've already got a wingman or someone who you know will wing for you, here are a few great openers.

You could use this with your wing anywhere. It'll be best to use it in a place where you know you'll see the girl again, like school, class, work, etc.

You say (be jolly): "Hey, my friend called me gay for saying that you're cute. Is it UNMANLY to say 'cute' or something?"

Your wingman (closely behind you): "Dude, chicks are HOT or BLAZING, not 'cute'! God, I thought I was dealing with a man here. She probably thinks you're a wuss."

You say: Yeah, whatever, go eat some beef jerky or something bro. Anyway, ignore him, he's just a walking glob of testosterone. Anyway, what's your name?

In this scenario, the girl will get the idea that you're a fun guy who isn't afraid to be sensitive. This is exactly what we want. Make sure your wingman's demeanor is like an "intelligent idiot". You be calm, cool, and amused. Basically, you play straight man to him.

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Or you could approach a girl or group of girls with the classic, "Hey, my friend says I appear gay in this shirt. Is this something I should worry about or do you think he's just joshing?"

Have your wingman say shortly after, "Yeah whatever, some guy named Josh is probably checking you out right now."

You both be playful and joyful. After she responds, just dive in the conversation.

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Take these two examples and run with them. Learn from them, apply them in real life, use them as a guideline. Do whatever--as long as you get SOMETHING out of it.

"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."

A Few Great Openers

I just recently read about this "Goodbye Introduction" conversation opener method from some site which I forgot, but it's REALLY good and YOU MUST know it. Okay, this opener should be used in an atmosphere where you know you'll see the girl again, like gym or at school. She's probably going to busy, but that's what we're aiming at. Basically what you're doing is leaving the scene, but suddenly notice her and compliment her beforfe you go.

Here's an example that will work in a gym atmosphere. Approach with this after she finishes a set or is taking a pause;

"Hey, I'm on my way out, but I can't leave without saying hello to the lady with the nice form. What's your name?" After she tells you her name, say with a smile, "Okay ___, hope to see ya again."

In a school atmosphere, you can say in the hallway;

"Hey, I'm on my way to class, but I can't go without first saying hello to the beautiful girl with the ___ colored shirt on. What's your name" After she tells you her name, say with a smile "Okay cool..I'll catch you around later, _____."

This is fantastic because next time you to meet up, you'll have something to draw a conversation from. It also adds a little mystique to you and you won't waste her time with this quick technique.


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Another great opener is the horoscope opener. You approach a girl, saying, "My horoscope told me to meet new friends today, so..my name's ___ what's your name?" Say this playfully.

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These two methods are extremely good and you will get positie resutls if you use them correctly. Keep gaming.

"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."

Getting Used To Talking w/ Girls

Are you one of those guys who just can't find his ballsack when the time for approaching a hot chick comes? Hmm...well my friend, you're really overanalyzing and fucking yourself in the ass, but I'll tell you how and how I overcame this stupid anxiety.

Okay, so it's a hot girl. She's beautiful. She's the hottest chick this side of town. She has pretty hair, nice tanned skin, blue eyes, a mini-skirt, popularity, and the perfect smile. Under the word "hot" in the dictionary is a picture of her. Okay, and? You know all the outside details about her, but we want something deeper. We want to know if she's compatible with me. We want to know if her personality is right enough for us to pursue her. Fuck fearing if she will reject me, she better fear I won't reject her! This is my mindset whenever I'm about to approach a hot chick. You've got to let yourself know that you will make her day and that you're the prize--not the other way around. I don't know about you guys, but physical attractiveness is just the wrapping for me, you know? If the girl is a fucking moron or has some other undesirable personality trait, I'll just jack off to her when I get home or move on to the next.

Okay, now you have an understanding of the mindset required to talk with hot chicks. Now, you've got to get some field work behind that knowledge to paint this picture complete. I have an assignment for you guys out there who don't have the balls to approach hot women;

1) Go to a place where hot chicks are laden, like a mall, popular downtown areas, and etc.

2) Don't give a fuck about shit. Realize you will never see these girls again in your life. Realize these girls are about as important to your life as the ants crawling on the sidewalks of New York City.

3) Approach 30 different attractive women per day for a week or however often you can. Give them all a sincere compliment about their physique, like, "Your eyes are pretty" or "You're really cute." Leave it at that. Don't dip deeper into the conversation unless she forces you to. Smile afterwards and then turn your attention elsewhere.

(If you don't have the nuts to give a compiment on their physique, ask them for the time.)

You can mix it up at least once. Rub chocolate or something on your forehead, and approach an attractive woman with a napkin, asking her to rub it off for you. Say, "Hey, I know my friend put something on my head. You look nice and you're pretty, so I trust your hands. Can you rub it off for me please?"

Try that last line out. You've got to do it. Oh my god, that's just so fucking smooth it's insane! Please, grow balls and try that last line! Hah, I'm going to do it. Anyway, this exercise will get you used to communicating with gorgeous women. Remember to make eye contact and smile.

Remember, once you do something you're afraid to do, it'll be easier the next time. If you do it 30 times per day for a week, just imagine how relaxed you'll be. Jump out your comfort zone, bro!

"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."

Getting The Phone Number

The number close is last phase of spitting game. A lot of guys make this out to be the most frustrating and nervous part of the game, but if you look at it for what it really is, it isn't. It's just asking for a god damn phone number. Nothing more, nothing less. Look at it like that and you'll be perfectly fine. I'll explain the BEST way to grab those digits and other forms of communication RAW and UNCUT!

Okay, so you gamed a chick to the best of your ability, and you're interested in talking with her later on. There are two ways to do this; straight out directly or directly with a twist. The aforementioned are two methods I created and have been proven to WORK!

Straight out directly is asking her for a form of communicating her with no strings attached. This may come off as a little threatening to a girl if you do it the way you see other guys do it or the way you think you should do it. You see, most guys will approach a girl they don't even know and ask for their phone number, which is so fucking stupid it doesn't even deserve criticism.

What you want to do in this method is tell her how you feel about her and let her know directly you want to continue the conversation. For example, if you've been walking and talking with a hot chick in a hallway somewhere and want to talk with her later on, simply tell her, "You're the kind of person I can really talk with. What's your number?" Have something to record her number out BEFORE she reacts. If you have paper and pen, be prepared to write before she responds. If you have a cell phone, have your fingers in place to record before she responds. Or you could say, "Hey I really want to continue this conversation, but I have to go, so what's your phone number?"

You don't have to ask for her number. You can ask for her myspace, e-mail address, AIM, or any other messenger name. The best way to get an alternate communication form is by saying something like; "Hey, I really want to continue this conversation. How can I get up with you? What's your AIM, e-mail address, or myspace?" Remember to be prepared to record before she reacts.

The next method which is directly with a twist is essentially the same as the first approach, except you're connecting something you've talked about to the reason for wanting to talk with her. For example, if you've complimented her on her handbag, bracelet, or something she's wearing, say something along the lines of, "Hey, you're pretty fashionable. I may need some tips on what to wear sometimes, so can I have your number?" You've got to say this with a friendly smile. You've got to give each word you say a different sound. Don't say everything mono, you know? Give a word more personality than the rest.

Remember, the number close isn't really important. It's just asking for the number. The important thing is letting her know you are WORTHY enough to talk with at a later time or through another form of communication.

"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."

Shyness & Social Anxiety

Shyness and social anxiety are two plagues that fuck introverted guys all over the damn GLOBE. It comes as a result of intense awareness and overanalyzing. Guys who unfortunately carry these two social diseases are usually virgins by the time their adults, tremble at the idea of approaching women, have few friends, and are extremely critical of EVERYTHING about themselves, from their voice tone to the way they fucking sit in a chair! They have imaginary mental boundaries created by THEIR consciousness.

It's virtually impossible to give you text that will end these two social plagues, but I'll tell you what you need to GET THROUGH YOUR FUCKING HEAD. I was like you. I smiled at mirrors that made me look good, and then a minute later another mirror would make me look ugly. I was so self-conscious of myself. I thought everyone payed attention to me when they DIDN'T. Eventually I got sick of that shit and adopted my FUCK THE WORLD philosophy.

You have to realize life is way too short to limit yourself. You have to realize that people don't fucking matter, and the way people are nowadays, they care too much about themselves to worry about anyone else. I mean, you have two choices; do you want to be a slave of your own thinking all your life which leads to questions like, "I wonder how it would have went if I were like this", or do you want to be the guy who went through life who laughs as he tells himself, "Damn, I can't believe I did that shit."

So, you think you're not very attractive. I know this sounds cliche, but beauty IS in the eye of the beholder and beauty does not necessairly entail physique 10/10 times, you feel? You have to compensate for your lack of attraction. Realize I'm an ugly fuck, but I'm cooler than all these other scrubs. I'm funny, smart, and a moment with my personality is a fucking Christmas present to any girl. You work with what you fucking got. Eventually, you will overshadow your appearance. Quit taking life so god damn seriously, man. Life is just so fucking short and you shouldn't be selling yourself short!

Live in the day. Live life one day at a time. Don't give a fuck about trivial shit. You could die at any moment, especially in these fucked up times. Make the most of your time. DO NOT be the 80 year old who sits in his rocker chair wondering how life would have went if you just didn't give a shit and dove in.

And to you guys who think you're the most fucked up thing since AIDS, walk through any fucking hospital, and be lucky you have what you have. Get the bigger picture, you know? Realize life isn't about being the next Brad Pitt. I mean, life is just a fucking organized GAME. You play it. Don't let it play you.

I know this won't cure social anxiety and shyness, but I know SOMEONE has been touched by this. Do not give a fuck about shit. Life is way too short to do that. Laugh at life, don't let it laugh at YOU.

"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."

Cold Approach Ideas

A cold approach is approaching and attempting to game a chick you don't know at all. You see a random beautiful girl, and you decide you HAVE at least get her to acknowledge you. Well, here are a few of my favorite COLD APPROACHES. Remember, when it comes to cold approaching, you can't give a fuck at all. You have to realize; if this doesn't work I'll never see her again, anyway. Repeat that until it's instilled in your subconscious.

Okay a great one for any given situation is to walk up to her, first saying, "Excuse me..do you have the time?"Then after she tells you the time, hopefully, tell her, "Actually I didn't need the time. I saw you from back there and thought you were very attractive, and I just had to get a voice to match you."

Another one I've been pretty successful with is to walk up to the girl, tap her shoulder so that she turns around to see me, and tell her flat out, "Hey..I noticed you're very beautiful from back there when I was walking, and I had to come up to you for a close-up. You're even prettier up close. It's a shame I probably won't ever see you again. What's your name, by the way?" It's pretty hefty, but that's usually all I say, just to hint my personality and motives to the girl.

Anyway, try these two approaches out and tell me how it went.

"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."

How To Not Be Just A "Friend"

Too many guys give off the impression that they are "friend material" instead of "boyfriend material" when introducing themselves to a chick. You know what I'm saying? One of the worst things you can do in this world is start a "friendship" chemistry instead of a "potential sex partner" chemistry with a wouldbe catch. I'll tell you how to avoid this from the START. RAW!

Okay, so you worked up the courage to talk with a girl you fancy. Everything is flowing nice. Great conversation. Now, it's natural for a girl to place you as a "friend" when you first know her. Gradually, she subconsciously decides if you're "boyfriend material" based on the way you behave around her, the choice of words you use around her, the way you relate to her, and all that type of shit.

To prevent this shit from happening from the start, tell her she's sexy. Don't tell her she's cute or pretty--this is what she's used to hearing from people like her grandmother and aunt! Tell her straight up she's sexy..without looking like a perverted dickhead. There's an art to doing this, so don't get apprehensive. As with most shit I write in this blog, I'll give you a few examples from my memory box. Remember, you learn best through examples and mimicing--not by reading large essays.

Me: You know, you're extremely sexy, but I bet you'd be even sexier with a hoodie on.

That's what I'd say. I'm letting her know I think she's extremely sexy, but the hoodie comment throws off the awkardness of it. When you tell her she's sexy, add a suggestion afterwards. Say she'll look even sexier with highlights in her hair. Don't do this from the jump. Do this when you guys are in mid convo.

The guy who will automatically be placed in the "friend" box would say something like, "You look so beautiful with your hair like that." or something of the sort. Her friends tell her that kind of shit, bro, so don't even go there. Let her know that she's sexy, and you will be immune to that friend box.

Another way to deliver the sexy comment is by first asking her playfully, "Can I tell you an honest compliment?"and then say, "You're sexy."

Remember that and you'll be cool.

"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."

Guys Don't Know Conversation

Man, it's a shame so many guys nowadays have no idea how to converse with women. All these lame closed-ended questions you guys are asking will not get you anywhere. From my observation, the average guy will approach an unfamiliar girl saying hot how she is or something about how beautiful she is. Scratch that, dog. I'm a good conversationalist who already came through the door, and now I'm going to assist you in getting through from the window.

First thing you have to do is quickly study the girl you want to approach. Acknowledge every little detail about her; from the logos of her clothes to the patterns of her fucking bracelet. You dive into a conversation with her as if you're a journalist surveying her, but with a less-threatening demeanor. Unlike other seduction experts, I don't recommend you talk as if you're a fucking robot. You know, with proper sentence structure, and all that unrealistic shit. Ex: "Hello. Your bracelet is magnificentlly beautiful." Maybe that wasn't the best example, but don't come at it like a lame.

The best way to learn is through example. So, if I saw the following girl in the picture somewhere, this is how I'll spit:



"Your red shirt..*pause for two seconds..facial expression is like I just finished cracking a prolonged mystery*....That's it...I've been looking around for a shirt exactly like that for my sister's birthday present. Where can I find one like that?"

That would be my icebreaker. Assuming she responds as I would like her to, I will then start the next phase.

"Yeah, my sister claimed red shirts are what the "divas" (air quotes) wear nowadays. I'm no fashion guru or anything like that, but judging by the sweetness you're giving off, I know this can't be true. I could be wrong, though."

That's smooth enough. Again, assuming she responds as I would like her, here's my phase three:

"Heh...you seem to be ahead of the curb when it comes to fashion. So, what's your fashion style like? What "articles of clothing" (air quotes) are you known to wear?"

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It's nice, smooth, implying that she's beautiful indirectly, and overall game. It also prompts her to give you long, and thought-provoking answers that will just birth good convo, you know? Like I said, people learn better from examples--not paragraphs of tutorial. Read the aforementioned example, learn it, copy it, use it as a guide, or whatever, but make sure you do something with it because it may get you laid tonight.

So, conclusively, don't ever say or ask open-ended things. Don't just say, "Hey, your bracelet looks cool." Say something more intricate. Say something deeper that will get her talking. Make up shit. Instead, say something like, "Interesting bracelet you have on. What is it symbolic for?" You know what I'm saying?

"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."

Field Report For Today

My main man Sl!m, a veteran of the game, gave me this tip yesterday. Anyway, this is how it worked out.

There's this cute girl who sits next to me in one of my classes. I know her name but never really had any substantial interaction with her. Today I planned on ending that. I wrote on a piece of paper, "This class bores me to death, but when I see you, my day suddenly brightens up :)..."

I crumbled balled the paper up a LITTLE but enough for her to see a note, and dropped it on the floor when she wasn't looking. Then, I tapped her shoulder and said, "Something for you." with a warm closed smile. It piqued her interest, and when she read it she smiled and starred at it for a few seconds, and then made eye contact with me. She then looked down as if she were tempoairly shy, and then looked at me again. Then she looked down, and wrote a response: "You know how to brighten a girl's day up yourself." and she winked at me.

During the class break, we both purposely made ourselves last to leave the class. "So..what's up?" I asked her, "Sorry for being so blunt, but for some strange reason, I feel like publicly expressing my thoughts. Just imagine what the guy in the confession booth thought of me." I added. We both laughed, walking out the classroom with butterflies.

That's all I said. I gave her enough dialouge to figure my personality out. She knows that I'm intelligent, clever, and caring. She took over the conversation during the break when we were sitting on a staircase. I asked her for her number at the end of class. "It'd be a crime if this chemistry between us ended right now, and I'm already wanted, so I can't risk this. What's your number?"

She laughed out loud, touching my stomach playfully, and then gave me the digits.

Pretty clever method that the average guy doesn't do. Thanks Sl!m.

"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."

Cocky and Funny..EXPLAINED!

Being cocky and funny is a well respected trait in the field of spitting game. This is one of the best ways to build attraction between a wouldbe admirer and yourself. I'll give it to you RAW.

The theory goes, most attractive females are bathed with uncountable flattering comments on a daily basis by random guys. The guys who do this get an A for effort, but flattering comments aren't a good way to standout in the girl's memory. It's like being really good at a video game-you get butterflies when your friends first tell you you're talented, but eventually it goes in one ear and out the other. So, if a chick is pass the stage of getting butterflies when she's complimented, which most attractive women are, she'll be dumbfounded when you go against the grain by being playfully mean while funny. It builds attraction! Most attractive women aren't expecting this kind of behavior from guys, therefore putting a spotlight on you in her memory while the other guys are shadowed out.

Sounds good and dandy and all, but most guys who are familiar with this technique don't know how to effectively use it. There's a fucking art to being cocky and funny. A lot of factors play in when being cocky and funny: voice tone, facial expression, body language. If you just say some mean comment about her without exhibiting the foundations of being cocky and funny, you're not being cocky and funny-you're just being a dick.

When I'm being cocky and funny, I have a sly smirk on my face to let her know that I'm kidding, my hands are in my pocket except my pinky and thumb (looks cool as hell), and I'm swaying a bit when I walk. I look cool as hell, laidback, I'm viewing this girl in a third person perspective as if I'm critquing an actress on the tube.

Here's a GREAT example of ME being cocky and funny;
There was this girl named Lauren back in high school. I didn't know her and she didn't know me, but I knew of her because she was into extracuricular activities and exceptionally attractive. I catch her walking in the hallway during class exchange, and I make my move--hands in my pocket except pinky and thumb, swaying a bit, and with a smirk. I'm talking to her as if I'm a cool 1960s private investigator who just figured out something.

ME: So...*pause for two seconds with one eyebrow raised*..you're the Lauren girl everyone has been talking about.

HER: Umm..*thrown off track*..yeah, what do you mean?

ME: *sucks teeth as if I'm unsure about how to rate an American Idol contestant*...Cute face, nice hair, pretty eyes, and seemingly intelligent. You're a catch when it comes to physical aspects, but what about the inside?

HER: Uhh..*she stops, unsure of what to say because she's never experienced this*..I..don't...know.

ME: *I say "hmph"..as if she wasn't a worthy challenger.* Well, I want to find out, Lauren. *I pull out my cell phone* what's your number?

She smiled and gave me the digits. A fucking home run. What I said was funny because the way I delviered it. I came at her with the voice tone of a PI who's mission is to review girls. The way I came at her was funny, the voice tone, the raised eyebrows, and the sucking of the teeth-not neccessairly my words.

I was a cool cat. I seemed very intelligent, confident, cool, and grounded. That's what you have to be. Look at the example. Learn how to deliver a word like "so" and a pause in a COOL way. Learn how to raise those eyebrows in a COOL way. Cocky doesn't mean being a fucking asshole. Cocky in this context means placing the girl in a position where she's trying to meet your standards. Intelligence also plays in. Look at my example...the wordplay in that..everything about the game I spat was pure intellect.

"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."

Spitting Game In School

Lot of ambitious high school guys ask me for good lines to spit to unknown girls in a high school atmosphere. I'll break it down for you guys. This can also apply to college-level guys.

You see a chick you're interested in walking down the hallway, and you think she's pretty hot. You want to approach her and get her to be familiar with you afterwards, but your game is scarier than AIDS. If the aforementioned description matches you, listen up.

Okay the best openers in a school atmosphere isn't focused on the girl's appearance, at least not in the beginning. Okay, first thing you should do is walk close by her, preferably on the side of her, at the same speed. Her natural instincts will alarm her that you're there. Next thing is your first verbal exchange, which will be "Hey, what's up?" in a laidback voice tone. Don't have your hands in your pockets. Walk like you're calm. Body language is the first indicator of everything in spitting game, so look cool.

After she responds (hopefully), say, "Are you new to..uh while making eye contact, pause for two seconds *insert your school's name*? raise your eyebrows after saying the last line I haven't seen you around until now." Make sure you say the "uh" part COOL. Don't say it like an idiot. The whole point of the "uh" pause is for that brief, intense, period of eye contact between the both of you. After she responds, perhaps playfully telling you she's been going to the school for awhile, say "heh"with an inviting smile. The next and final thing you say is, "Up until this very moment, this school has been pretty boring, but now that I know you're here, I'm suddenly into it again. I have to go now. What's your name?" She'll tell you her name if you did everything right. After she tells you, say, "Cool. Nice to meet you *her name*." Offer your hand to her for a handshake, and smile as you do it. Then you end the encounter with, "Alright, *her name*, next time I bump into you, I'll walk you to class. Deal?" Don't give her time to answer the question. Just smile and walk away.

This is pure game right here, man. The comment about her making school interesting to you again subliminally hints to her that you find her attractive and special without sounding like a complete asshole. Unlike most guys, you didn't once mention she's hot directly, and you proved you're a nice guy. Remember to raise your eyebrows (don't look lame) when asking the questions. It lets her know that you're genuinely interested. Solid eye contact always.

Next time you see her, be sure to say, "Yeah, so now that I've found someone that can make school less dull point at her playfully, I want to keep it. What's your phone number, her name, ?" Be sure to have a pen and paper, cell phone, or something to record a # out BEFORE you ask.

"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."