Approaching Women
Approaching women has been a huge problem to many men over the years. If you’re a player looking to hook up with complete strangers, then approaching women can be one of the riskiest times in a confrontation. I mean, what do you say to someone you’ve never met before?
Currently there are tons and tons of articles, reports and even books on how to effectively approach women, and people actually pay $100’s of dollars just to see how to approach ladies in varying and un-inventive ways. But I really wonder if all of them tell the “truth” about the ease and lust of approaching women...
I’ve been a pretty big PUA for a number of years now and have approached countless women, most resulting in wild conversation but a select few resulting in rejection. In the years that I have been approaching women, I have come to a single conclusion about “The Art of the Approach”.
There’s one thing that has stood out with my testing and experiences of the years of approaching women - Acting on impulse. You have to be fluid, dynamic and ready to accept anything that hits you. I mean, you can get a book that gives you 5000 pick-up lines, but what good is a pick-up line if it has no context. What good does a set “speech” do if the woman you are approaching is not in the slightest interested?
With approached women you have just met, you need to be able to complement them on something that they are wearing that very second; you need to be able to tell them how you love their hair; you need to be able to ask if she is with any friends. Because in the end of the day – if you read a step by step guide of what to do out of a book, you are just going to end up not inventing anything. You are just going to become a sheep, following someone who probably hasn’t had any success with what they are promoting anyway, as far as approaching women is concerned.
You see, you need to not be afraid of women or even admire them so much if you want to successfully approach them. Think of homosexuals. They get along fine with women all of the time, simply because the women know the men aren’t trying to get in their pants all the time.
Well, that’s something you need to try and get across when approaching women. You need to be able to put a conversation together that really shows your actually interested in her. You need to be able to show her that you really care about what she looks like, who she is and what her interests are in order for her to “accept you” as a friend.
Women are always on the receiving end of the approach. Men are the ones who go after the women, so make sure you stand out from the other men who’ve tried approach that women before you. Think about what you would enjoy talking about if you where her...
Not some lame sexual orientated jokes, but some really interesting and complementing conversation about her and what she is all about. The more trust you gain from a woman when you approach her, the more chance you will get of scoring with her.
This means that when you approach women, you mustn’t be like a sheet of cardboard. You need to be able to express yourself and make her want to be with you. You need to stand out from the other men, and not make yourself look like you’re a sex hungry monster.
You just need to keep things flowing around her. Complement her, talk about her interests, her job or even where she gets her clothes. Show that you want to know more about her than just whether she likes you or not. The more you put yourself across as the friend who just wants to talk about interesting stuff, the more she will enjoy talking to you and actually come to like being in your company.
Remember, you don’t want to sound like one of your college professors, by being boring and un-interesting. You need to spice up your conversation and personality when approaching women. You need to be able to show her that you are interested in her and not just wanting to get in her pants all the time. Show her some respect and she will show you some by paying attention to what you have to say.
"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."
Currently there are tons and tons of articles, reports and even books on how to effectively approach women, and people actually pay $100’s of dollars just to see how to approach ladies in varying and un-inventive ways. But I really wonder if all of them tell the “truth” about the ease and lust of approaching women...
I’ve been a pretty big PUA for a number of years now and have approached countless women, most resulting in wild conversation but a select few resulting in rejection. In the years that I have been approaching women, I have come to a single conclusion about “The Art of the Approach”.
There’s one thing that has stood out with my testing and experiences of the years of approaching women - Acting on impulse. You have to be fluid, dynamic and ready to accept anything that hits you. I mean, you can get a book that gives you 5000 pick-up lines, but what good is a pick-up line if it has no context. What good does a set “speech” do if the woman you are approaching is not in the slightest interested?
With approached women you have just met, you need to be able to complement them on something that they are wearing that very second; you need to be able to tell them how you love their hair; you need to be able to ask if she is with any friends. Because in the end of the day – if you read a step by step guide of what to do out of a book, you are just going to end up not inventing anything. You are just going to become a sheep, following someone who probably hasn’t had any success with what they are promoting anyway, as far as approaching women is concerned.
You see, you need to not be afraid of women or even admire them so much if you want to successfully approach them. Think of homosexuals. They get along fine with women all of the time, simply because the women know the men aren’t trying to get in their pants all the time.
Well, that’s something you need to try and get across when approaching women. You need to be able to put a conversation together that really shows your actually interested in her. You need to be able to show her that you really care about what she looks like, who she is and what her interests are in order for her to “accept you” as a friend.
Women are always on the receiving end of the approach. Men are the ones who go after the women, so make sure you stand out from the other men who’ve tried approach that women before you. Think about what you would enjoy talking about if you where her...
Not some lame sexual orientated jokes, but some really interesting and complementing conversation about her and what she is all about. The more trust you gain from a woman when you approach her, the more chance you will get of scoring with her.
This means that when you approach women, you mustn’t be like a sheet of cardboard. You need to be able to express yourself and make her want to be with you. You need to stand out from the other men, and not make yourself look like you’re a sex hungry monster.
You just need to keep things flowing around her. Complement her, talk about her interests, her job or even where she gets her clothes. Show that you want to know more about her than just whether she likes you or not. The more you put yourself across as the friend who just wants to talk about interesting stuff, the more she will enjoy talking to you and actually come to like being in your company.
Remember, you don’t want to sound like one of your college professors, by being boring and un-interesting. You need to spice up your conversation and personality when approaching women. You need to be able to show her that you are interested in her and not just wanting to get in her pants all the time. Show her some respect and she will show you some by paying attention to what you have to say.
"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."
posted by Dylan Walken at 4:58 PM
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