“Who cares about shoes!?” That’s the normal plea of an excuse I get whenever I tell any number douche bags how I get the bombshell on my arm in a matter of minutes and you sit there at the bar drinking your three dollar Budlight and staring at her.
Well, if you don’t take care of your shoes, your shoes won’t take care of you.
Your shoes can tell allot to anyone about your personality. I mean, if you have all dirty and even torn up sneakers, then you’re bound to be someone who doesn’t take care of many things in your life; whereas if you’ve got some nice polished black business shoes on, it shows that you really care about your appearance and have even taken the time to look out for your shoes.
When women first meet you, they will give you a look down, as like you do with women – and if your shoes aren’t up to par, then they are going to notice and unfortunately hold it against you. I’m sorry, but it’s a fact – women don’t like crap shoes
So what shoes do they like? Well that’s a tough question to answer from the point of view of the woman. They all have different tastes and so it’s no use going down that route, to be honest.
The best thing you can do is to look as smart as possible, and co-coordinated. Try a nice bright shirt, dark jeans and polished black shoes. This gives the appearance of a buff businessman who knows what he is talking about which is the effect I always achieve.
However, if you just want to be a bit more casual then I suppose sneakers or boots are fine... as long as they are clean and “presentable”. Shoes don’t look fresh forever, but you can sure as hell make sure they stay presentable, by giving them a good clean just before you hit the town, and make sure you don’t get them totally trashed.
Ever since a kid, I’ve always had two sets of sneakers, simply so that I could trash one pair and use another for going out in if I needed. I’ll let you into a secret of mine – I still do that to this day. No matter what shoes you have on – just remember to keep them looking the best possible; which I guarantee will make an even better impression on the ladies.
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