Sunday, January 27, 2008

Appearence Tip

Shoes are probably the most important part of your wardrobe when it comes to “Picking-up Girls”, as they give a pretty good signal to women of your character.



“Who cares about shoes!?” That’s the normal plea of an excuse I get whenever I tell any number douche bags how I get the bombshell on my arm in a matter of minutes and you sit there at the bar drinking your three dollar Budlight and staring at her.



Well, if you don’t take care of your shoes, your shoes won’t take care of you.
Your shoes can tell allot to anyone about your personality. I mean, if you have all dirty and even torn up sneakers, then you’re bound to be someone who doesn’t take care of many things in your life; whereas if you’ve got some nice polished black business shoes on, it shows that you really care about your appearance and have even taken the time to look out for your shoes.



When women first meet you, they will give you a look down, as like you do with women – and if your shoes aren’t up to par, then they are going to notice and unfortunately hold it against you. I’m sorry, but it’s a fact – women don’t like crap shoes



So what shoes do they like? Well that’s a tough question to answer from the point of view of the woman. They all have different tastes and so it’s no use going down that route, to be honest.
The best thing you can do is to look as smart as possible, and co-coordinated. Try a nice bright shirt, dark jeans and polished black shoes. This gives the appearance of a buff businessman who knows what he is talking about which is the effect I always achieve.



However, if you just want to be a bit more casual then I suppose sneakers or boots are fine... as long as they are clean and “presentable”. Shoes don’t look fresh forever, but you can sure as hell make sure they stay presentable, by giving them a good clean just before you hit the town, and make sure you don’t get them totally trashed.



Ever since a kid, I’ve always had two sets of sneakers, simply so that I could trash one pair and use another for going out in if I needed. I’ll let you into a secret of mine – I still do that to this day. No matter what shoes you have on – just remember to keep them looking the best possible; which I guarantee will make an even better impression on the ladies.



"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."

Approaching Women

Approaching women has been a huge problem to many men over the years. If you’re a player looking to hook up with complete strangers, then approaching women can be one of the riskiest times in a confrontation. I mean, what do you say to someone you’ve never met before?

Currently there are tons and tons of articles, reports and even books on how to effectively approach women, and people actually pay $100’s of dollars just to see how to approach ladies in varying and un-inventive ways. But I really wonder if all of them tell the “truth” about the ease and lust of approaching women...

I’ve been a pretty big PUA for a number of years now and have approached countless women, most resulting in wild conversation but a select few resulting in rejection. In the years that I have been approaching women, I have come to a single conclusion about “The Art of the Approach”.

There’s one thing that has stood out with my testing and experiences of the years of approaching women - Acting on impulse. You have to be fluid, dynamic and ready to accept anything that hits you. I mean, you can get a book that gives you 5000 pick-up lines, but what good is a pick-up line if it has no context. What good does a set “speech” do if the woman you are approaching is not in the slightest interested?

With approached women you have just met, you need to be able to complement them on something that they are wearing that very second; you need to be able to tell them how you love their hair; you need to be able to ask if she is with any friends. Because in the end of the day – if you read a step by step guide of what to do out of a book, you are just going to end up not inventing anything. You are just going to become a sheep, following someone who probably hasn’t had any success with what they are promoting anyway, as far as approaching women is concerned.

You see, you need to not be afraid of women or even admire them so much if you want to successfully approach them. Think of homosexuals. They get along fine with women all of the time, simply because the women know the men aren’t trying to get in their pants all the time.

Well, that’s something you need to try and get across when approaching women. You need to be able to put a conversation together that really shows your actually interested in her. You need to be able to show her that you really care about what she looks like, who she is and what her interests are in order for her to “accept you” as a friend.

Women are always on the receiving end of the approach. Men are the ones who go after the women, so make sure you stand out from the other men who’ve tried approach that women before you. Think about what you would enjoy talking about if you where her...

Not some lame sexual orientated jokes, but some really interesting and complementing conversation about her and what she is all about. The more trust you gain from a woman when you approach her, the more chance you will get of scoring with her.

This means that when you approach women, you mustn’t be like a sheet of cardboard. You need to be able to express yourself and make her want to be with you. You need to stand out from the other men, and not make yourself look like you’re a sex hungry monster.

You just need to keep things flowing around her. Complement her, talk about her interests, her job or even where she gets her clothes. Show that you want to know more about her than just whether she likes you or not. The more you put yourself across as the friend who just wants to talk about interesting stuff, the more she will enjoy talking to you and actually come to like being in your company.

Remember, you don’t want to sound like one of your college professors, by being boring and un-interesting. You need to spice up your conversation and personality when approaching women. You need to be able to show her that you are interested in her and not just wanting to get in her pants all the time. Show her some respect and she will show you some by paying attention to what you have to say.


"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."

Sunday, January 20, 2008

A few openers from Shezz / Unusual approaches from me

Taken from a successful Don Juan known as Shezz:

"Some of the stuff i've used over the past few weeks. Mostly mid conversation with my girlfriend, but i'm sure they would be good when opening too.

Enjoy.

"My mates over there bet that I wouldn't be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl in the room. Want to buy some shots with their money?" - Opener.

"I bet you $5 you're gonna turn me down." - (Cheesey, but fun) Opener

"When I'm older looking back at all of my greatest memories, and I'll think of the day my children were born, the day I got married, and the day that I met you. " - Gold, used this on our lass.

"Why do you have to be so damn sexy every single day? Can't you take a break and let me concentrate on something else for a change?" - Again mid-convo (slight C+F)

"If I was Peter pan you'd be my happy thought!" - Got the idea for this from Cheeky's thread. Cheers bro.

"You make Jessica Alba look like a teletubbie." - Smooth. Shezz style.

Sarge On..."

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Okay, now. I've been experimenting with a few unorthodox openers with women over the past few months, and they've worked for me pretty well. I don't have much time to post, so I'll just drop the lines, and you absorb the gist of what I'm saying.

I was in a quiet library the other day, sitting next to this absolutely stunning perfect 10 brunette. I didn't want to talk because she and a few other people at the table (potential cockblocks) were studying hard, so I drew up a tic-tac board, made a move on it (top left X) and passed it on to her. I kicked her ass, of course, and then I wrote after I won: "You lost, now you must give me your number." It worked!

On myspace, I sent a really attractive Spanish girl the message: "If I weren't gay, you'd be mine." I've used this line several times in real life, also, and have had a mix of positive and negative results--but it's chiefly an online thing.

The important thing is to mix up your approaches-don't do the same ol' shit!

"We're all born pick-up artists, only society prevents our true potential."